Ever since dunno how many weeks ago, I have been busy with not only work, school, kids and personal well-being. But lately it's decision making. I dun have time to go sit and think or even ponder... Things have to just happened and i was left to decide on spot especially when dealing with Co's case. The father had "thrown" her out and she wanted out of his house and sight ASAP! He was irresponsible for doing this. Honestly, I only know a lie that Co told that had turned things haywired. But which kid dun lie? He didnt even bother to find out why she lied in the first place.
Yes, she was wrong to lied but as a parent, he has to teach her and find out y... instead he just blow his top and sent the poor gal out of the house. I heard from Co that in fact a few times, she was told to get inside the room for no apparent reason, just bcos he was in a foul mood. He was even shouting at her. WTF! A gal at the age of 9, she knows wat's going on, mind u... he just dun bother explaining to her, alway throwing into a fit. 3 yrs back I left him for good and yet he still dun learnt his lesson well(obviously). Now he had made this little one with so much hatred for him. He even stopped her from contacting me. If she was able to talk to me, i'm sure things wont turn out this way. Luckily I taught her how to use msn. She managed to contact me via msn secretly while the father was away for reservist. This is how i get to know wat happened to her for the two months when i wasnt able to get hold of them. She was living in fear of the father.
Now that Co is back with me for good. I have to re-adjust my schedules to fit into hers which I dun mind. I just need some time to settle some loose ends. This poor gal bcos of the father decision to "throw" her out like that had been missing school for like 2 weeks. I have trying to contact her old school principle to see if I can transfer her back. Her current school was too far for me. And worst no one is able to fetch her when the bell rings for session end. I'm worried abt her getting up at 5.30am in the morning and had to leave the hse by 6.15 to catch the public bus. It's gonna be real tough for both of us.
This blardy man refused to give the custody rights back to me. Worst come to worst I may have to see him in court for the one last time to get it back. And i make sure he will be out of our lives forever for causing such agony to my gal who almost sink to depression. But now... i really dunno how to go about it. She's one tough gal tho... hmnn same like me... I hope she can really put all these behind her and get on with her daily life. Otherwise this issue will stay with her for life which i dun wish to see it. It's bad for her well-being in growing up.
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